READ WHAT YOU HAVE WRITTEN: He didn’t intend to harm me, he thought he is only helping me to improve and be better!
Spend time with people who love you and be with Nature a lot
Do 
you really need help or does he? You have started to actually believe that you are at fault and that it is your problem.
Bottom line: You change only if you wish to and that too with things that don’t challenge your value systems. Never be forced into anything; period!
Dear HV, So he loves you (A) and then he didn’t tell you about his girlfriend (B) and then he goes on to be engaged to another girl (C)
Either sit him down and assert this point or ask him to visit a professional to take care of his state of mind.
HV: Hey Anu, Straight to the point, life is full of comfort and I hate that part. Well I want to seek your valuable opinion on my past. I mean I just get stuck into himSo there was the guy and I fell with him. But there is a saying whatever falls or breaks, happened to me.. he had gf he didn’t tell me that factor even after 4 years of our togetherness. Then after right now he got engaged with some other girl near to my home. (more…)